Our expert Date and Relationship Coach, Shannon, who is also a very successful Matchmaker who has brought many happy couples together over decades, continuously researches developments in the dating game to enlighten a growing audience of Singles who no longer wish to be “single and alone” and are prepared to be realistic about finding love again. In recent blogs we covered many topics – from how do we know when we are dating a narcissist, or are a victim of pocketing, breadcrumbing, gaslighting and even love bombing (in a way stalking) and more!! You may even believe you are in a relationship but in fact, are in a “situationship”. Maybe you are just “using” each other as “second best for now”? Something is missing?
When a Love Relationship is not Delivering
Today we talk about that strange feeling we have when we THINK it may be a relationship, but it just does not quite ring true and we are uneasy!! We don’t want to walk away because hope burns eternal that things will change, or we become ever more of a “giver” or “people pleaser” because we think we are not just quite good enough, so try harder…or worse, we start blaming ourselves and finding a million reasons to doubt our own attraction factor and insecurity swoops in like a vampire to drain our lifeblood, and our confidence!! Are we being manipulated?
Seeking a real Human Connection when dating
SO??? If you are wishing and hoping or waxing hot and cold and have moments of ”yes, this may work” followed by doubts and agonising questions running in your head “is it or isn’t it?” this video is for you!! When we are FWB at least we KNOW!!! But if you kinda stay perplexed, maybe this insight helps …….and you can make a decision to leave or give it a real go!! and best of all ….trust our guidance on red flags and intuition and run before you are sucked into a mystery situationship!!
Why your relationship is rocky
It could be you take each other for granted or are settling ‘for second best’ and hoping that your Mr/Ms Right will magically still manifest as The One another day. The sad truth is that while you are dating half-heartedly you are distracted and wasting precious time and energy anyway. When we date consciously and intentionally it means we are prepared to face commitment and give 100% to make it work, and finding love is hard work, relationships are hard work, and love is hard work – but it is very rewarding – especially with the guiding hand of your matchmaker who is also a date coach and understands love dynamics.
Watch Video Are you in a Situationship or a Relationship
Maybe we are just not meeting the Right Single guy or lady? Overwhelming choices exist on many dating sites and apps and it can be a fruitless search. A Matchmaker who is also a relationship coach can often help new lovers go to the next level by making sure personal introductions are compatible and a new love interest can be sustainable long term. No dating app or bot can ever provide the human touch needed when forming love bonds.
Subtle Seduction and Flirting is key
Maybe we are not bringing on the full charm and flirt needed to hold and keep the attention of the other person? Maybe we are not managing expectations? Have we forgotten our subtle skill of seduction in the dating game? Happy couples often confess to keeping their flirt on until their end game and never lost interest in their beloved!! Your date coach can help if you are rusty and new to the modern world of dating.
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With love and light, Shannon and The Team
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