Dating Online And Dating Fatigue

Matchmaker – Help is Here When Needed

Our dating agency, with close on 20 years in the dating game, is really busy with many enquiries from mostly professionals Singles who are almost quitting on finding love again – is the human matchmaker a last resort? What is dating fatigue and why is it effecting Singles post-pandemic? Why is online dating making this phenomenon worse and how can a Matchmaking Agency help?

Dating fatigue is a condition that singles experience after a prolonged period of actively seeking a romantic partner. It’s a widespread phenomenon lately that Singles genuinely seeking to find love again are disillusioned and suffering burnout from dating apps. Modern dating through digital mediums can be overwhelming – and even risky – and is influenced by several factors. Online dating is a significant contributor to this condition, as it can transform the dating process into a job or game instead of a genuine search for love. It is almost a habit to keep swiping and mental health experts are saying it is ruining social interaction and causing people to feel even more isolated.

Dating Sites Can Be Overwhelming

The vast number of options available in online dating can be overwhelming and contribute to dating fatigue, and it may be free or less costly, but the high price is mental health as people begin to believe they are not worthy. Singles are bombarded with countless profiles, messages, and potential matches, making it challenging to establish a genuine connection with any one person. This can result in feelings of burnout and apathy towards dating. The truth is emerging too that many connect but hardly ever speak real time or meet – what cooks? Ghosting is common. Everyone is loving and loveable to the RIGHT person – start by meeting those that are right for YOU!

Personal Introductions Are Key When Dating

A human service is also like ‘social recruitment’ and your dating agency gets to know and understand the individual needs of all the Singles on their database, meaning you will meet others who are at least aligned to your ideas. Another issue with online dating is the lack of accountability and transparency. Many people on dating apps and websites are not looking for serious relationships and may misrepresent themselves to get more matches or attention. This can lead to disappointment and disillusionment when singles discover that their matches are not as compatible or genuine as they had hoped. Or downright dodgy?

Quality Dating VS Quantity Dating

Our Matchmaking Agency has been voted “Best Dating Service in SA” in 2023, our 3rd year in a row! We can assist in mitigating some of the problems associated with online dating and dating fatigue. Matchmakers work with clients to understand their preferences, values, and goals, and use this information to find compatible matches. This eliminates the need for clients to sift through endless profiles and messages, as the matchmaker does the heavy lifting for them.

As an upmarket Matchmaking Agency and as relationship coaches, we help you navigate the dating game, because like any game, everyone needs to know the moves! We offer a more personalized and transparent approach to dating. Clients can rest assured that the people they are matched with are genuinely interested in a relationship and have been vetted and approved by the agency. Matchmakers also provide coaching and support throughout the dating process, helping clients navigate any challenges or issues that may arise.

Matchmaking Is A Paid Service

In conclusion, dating fatigue is a common condition affecting many singles who have been actively searching for love for an extended period. Online dating exacerbates this issue by providing overwhelming choices and a lack of accountability. Moreover, most dating sites say they are for free but then you end up buying premium membership and paying anyway! Matchmaking agencies provide a more personalized and transparent approach to dating, assisting clients in finding compatible matches and navigating the dating landscape with confidence and support.

When you pay for a service you are investing in YOUR future – and so are the others you will be exploring – this already proves everyone is committed to the wellbeing of all concerned. There is a vetting process (very flexible and accommodating) to make sure people are date ready and can manage expectations. Confidentiality is non-negotiable.

Join our unique Singles Community today. Please submit your Personal Profile and we will contact you for your free orientation chat on how it all works, and which package suits your budget. Let’s chat!!