Shannon, a professional matchmaker who introduces genuine Singles to each other personally ensures that all her clients meet well-vetted, screened and qualified Singles who are genuinely tired of the dating games, dating nightmares and disappointments after going it alone and getting poor results. Having to suss out someone you fancy, get to know them and what makes them tick and assess whether even a good fit, is hard work. It looked good – so what went wrong?
HAVE YOU LISTENED TO YOUR HEART LATELY? DATING FANTASY OR DATING REALITY?
The eternal secret to finding love again when setting out on any dating adventure is to firstly find the RIGHT FIT! Looks may dazzle, charm may sweep you off your feet, but when the first drug high of attraction is over, do you even really know each other?
Sadly, many Singles then embark and invest in what they believe are perfect relationships, even tying the knot. And then find out too late it was simply not a good fit, they had little in common or even actually dislike the person they once swooned over.
How do YOU ‘recruit’ the best fit for YOU? Of course, everyone has their favourite “type” or “look” but that does not last very long once the heart and soul is also involved – not just the physical aspects.
HOW STRONG IS YOUR VIBRATIONAL ENERGY? WHO AND WHAT DO YOU ATTRACT AS A SINGLE SEEKING LOVE?
The secret to success is to talk to your personal matchmaker or your dating agency on what you really would like and who you feel would be a great heart investment. There are many things that influence and your matchmaker can guide you to a plan we call ‘dating by design and not default’.
ARE YOU SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SEEK IN ANOTHER WHEN DATING?
Are there signs you felt something was not working despite your yearning (you thought it was the real deal, or was it fake people and just not doing it for you?)………maybe your instinct was spot on! Maybe you really did not know your own needs and criteria and were more in love with the idea of being in love, rather than a real human being who is going to be your “forever after”? Your matchmaker is also a relationship therapist/coach and of huge value in figuring it all out.
No more time for the fussies and fear when dating? Be brave, be courageous and never be mundane or a “play-it-safer”. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain, so make sure you are resonating at a high frequency and be personally (and confidentially) introduced to our awesome Singles in a safe environment, for starters.
The trick is to “expand your terms of reference” so you can better look past longing, and actually recognise what is RIGHT for you in reality! You may be totally surprised if you just bring down the walls to your heart and let love find you! With the RIGHT significant other!
Some friendships or relationships aren’t meant to last a lifetime………..you keep it going …..but your heart is not in it….time to quit? It is true we outgrow some people. Let us help you back on the path to soulmate love.
“Be careful who you share your weaknesses with. Some people can’t wait for the opportunity to use them against you.” – Anonymous
“The less you respond to negative people, the more peaceful your life will become.” – Anonymous