CHEMISTRY + PASSION + INTIMACY + PRACTICE = LASTING LOVE
A Strategic Dating Plan Has to Start with Strategic Thinking – Am I Ready???
As the most trusted and successful dating agency in SA for personal, curated and human one-on-one introductions in the eternal search for that RIGHT person for an investment in a lasting relationship, we know how important it is to meet YOUR kinda types and prospects – filtering through all the “maybe’s and ifs’” and futile efforts is key – at least start with someone who is likeminded and as intentional as you are!!!
Many Singles have an avoidance attachment due to past trauma and fear of failute and getting hurt, but at least with your agency you are assured that you are being introduced to prospects that have the same goals, dreams and desires as you – no risky fakes, perverts, flakes, users or worse!!!
Many new relationships fail not because it is the wrong person, but because the two parties are just not at the same stage of readiness for real commitment. Your matchmaker ensures you are in fact date-ready by walking you through the baby steps from first attraction to commitment to investing real time and effort into your new flame.
It is therefore necessary for your matchmaker to discuss your individual and intentional plan: to both seek the RIGHT prospects and always have a workable framework for the steps down the pathway to new love and how to progress from attraction to chemistry, for starters!!!
When Dating Intentionally Ask how “Date Ready” Are Single Men and Women?
The questions we cover are meant to pinpoint where you are at in the journey dating intentionally and the purpose of finding new love.
- What is your attachment style and how it will predict how you love, fight, and react under stress.
- The healthiest partnerships begin when two people arrive emotionally prepared, not just emotionally attracted.
- Passion feels powerful, but bonding and a deep intellectual connection means a companionate love that sustains long-term commitment.
If your attachment stye is fear and you are anxious and feeling insecure, there are ways to grow beyond this stage of “fight or flight” and learn to adjust to a new attachment style where you feel confident, not afraid to be vulnerable and open to getting close and personal with a new crush. Your matchmaker guides you and can be a fast-track to the real deal.
Talking to an Expert Date and Relationship Coach is Key to Winning at Love!!
Love is never a form of therapy to make us feel better and a new partner is not a rehab centre, rescue or means to a better lifestyle or a leg up!!! There are many ways to discover the meaning of real, fulfilling, adult and mature love between two people when avoidance styles are also banished!!!
NEXT WEEK OUR BLOG WILL SHARE MORE SECRETS ON SUCCESSFUL DATING – DON’T MISS THESE WORDS OF WISDOM!!
Let us discuss your communication style and anxieties to assist you relax and feel safe to trust yourself and your instincts on the pathway to new love – with your agency and all their resources behind you too!!!
Your personal matchmaker is invaluable in helping understand the rules of the dating game, the best ways to encourage when it looks good, or exit when it is not.
Please submit your Personal Profile and we will call and book a chat to discuss how we can improve your dating experience, apart from also meeting prospects that are genuine and RIGHT FOR YOU!!