Are We Screwing Up Our Chances of Love Ever Finding Us Again??
Getting Acquainted with Facts vs Getting Assessed by Guessing
It is a fact of life and human nature that a fear of the future is VERY REAL!!! Especially when it comes to being vulnerable and exposing oneself to the most important and vital component of the journey through life – finding lasting and rewarding love – nobody wants to travel into the unknown and unpredictable future alone!! Humans are meant to be in a loving partnership.
Are we subconsciously screwing up our chances of successful dating by making totally wrong decisions based on unfounded assumptions before we even have the facts??? Jumping to conclusions is mostly misjudgment and is the root of all misunderstandings!!
Sadly, the university of life is a learning curve, and they say experience is the best teacher. But when the lessons leave people cynical, fearful and afraid to explore options in a fast paced world – made even more overwhelming by an overflow of choices in a digital space – where do we go to for help in actually meeting the RIGHT prospects that meet our needs, with criteria that are compatible as soulmates or partners?
Fact Finding vs Fault Finding
It is a proven fact that the power of positive thinking is crucial to fulfilling our healthy desires, needs and dreams, especially in our most sacred of spaces, our hearts!! But the power of NEGATIVE thinking can be just as powerful – and very destructive too!! The absolutes of Positive Thinking and the Law of Attraction lies in manifesting the positives!!
Whether in our prayers or projections and manifesting, when we keep saying “I DO NOT WANT XYZ” the Good Lord, the Universe and the eternal cosmic energy will only hear “I DO NOT WANT” and will ignore our please because these divine powers are energized only by positivity!! When we ask “PLEASE SEND ME SOMEONE TO LOVE” it is an offering of giving the gift of love and is extremely powerful and ignites positive energy!! And ask yourself “Am I ready to be loved too” because fantasies remain fantasies.
Personal Matchmakers Have a Plan for You
Get to the truth, the realities and find out the facts about the person you plan on seeing and deeply consider if they are also open to personal development and growth within in a new relationship. Do not slide into the negative pattern of fault finding before you even know the person (chosen to explore because you LIKE each other, for starters)!!
People that are open to adaptation and transformation will easily discuss differences, negotiate needs and find healthy, workable solutions. Love is perfect, never humans!! No new prospect can logically appear by magic exactly according to your concocted blueprint or well-written script.
The Role of the Personal Matchmaker and a Curated Dating Agency
Most genuine Singles do not know where to start looking!! Get expert help from your agency on understanding your single’s world, the dating landscape and what is doable and possible (never magic but certainly a quantum leap towards meeting the RIGHT prospects!! Get a dating strategy to suit your needs and criteria.
Beware and never fall into the trap of negative thinking – never doubt that you deserve true love and support – because that is when things go wrong! Your matchmaker has people mastery and excellent recruitment skills and will know your needs before you start exploring, boosting your confidence and courage enormously!! No more doubts “am I good enough” because the search is for a compatible person with the same basic needs and dreams as yours!
Please submit your Personal Profile and we will call and book a chat to discuss how we can improve your dating experience, apart from also meeting prospects that are genuine and RIGHT FOR YOU!!