Ask yourself if you are purely THINKING love with a mental idea of what you need, or are you using your heart to guide your experiences? Peoples’ circumstances dictates their lifestyles/patterns, but only experience can guide their instinct towards changing their love life from failure to success – when they know what love is – beyond lust and instant gratification.
Dating, Relating and Mating – Finding True Love
Shannon, owner of the two leading dating agencies in SA who personally and confidentially facilitates intros between well matched Singles, underscores the now brutal truth, backed by expert statistics, that finding love and meeting the RIGHT prospects for a rewarding “forever relationship” is very confusing and also hard work.
Reasons For Dating Burnout and Fatigue
When asked the question, put to many Singles “How is your dating life?” most Singles seeking new love will say “DATING SUCKS!” and they also ask the question “Where can I meet the RIGHT love partner for ME!!”. The fact is that dating apps are just not delivering! A hard fact is that close on 80% of Gen Z and Millennials are avoiding any form of online dating platforms and social media. A reputable human-run (no bots) dating agency and professional matchmaker is the next best bet when people are prepared to invest in a specialised “recruitment” service that sources and filters, then personally introduces likely prospects. It is extremely beneficial too that the matchmaker is also a qualified date and relationship coach and helps each individual with a dating strategy!
Lust And Attraction Will Motivate New Love, But?
Of course, two single people need to be attracted to each other in the first place before any chance of a romance can happen!! The most primitive basic instinct to breed drives lust, sexuality and sensuality, FACT!! But that does not mean the same as being in LOVE!! It is therefore logical that people need to firstly ATTRACT the attention from a prospect so that the lust factor can be channelled into a love factor. Often that is where the “finding love” process stops – many people do not know what love means, what it is to truly love from the heart – and express their mutual love through mind-blowing and awesome intimacy naturally and skilfully!! Luckily there are many different “types” of humans and there is a lid for every pot, but gambling on attraction and new love just happening is a heartbreaking fantasy – people need to KNOW their X-FACTOR and work on their attraction to encourage the attention they seek!! Then they need to manage expectations. If they seek someone who is an 8/10 they better be sure they step up and show up as well as an 8/10!! Thank goodness that every individual also has a different idea on what that 8/10 is, and one person’s frog may be another’s prince/princess. This is where an astute matchmaker helps her clients find the 8/10 they seek, and to also be that 8/10 to the RIGHT others, because the matchmaker knows her clients’ dreams and desires and can guide on X-FACTOR needed. Presentation to the right market of future partners is vital.
Dating Events – Human Connections
Is it a case now in the world of dating that humans seek human connectedness and contact more than ever? Dating events will be the new hype for a while where people who hopefully are likeminded can meet in a chosen location physically. It sounds very exciting!! A buzzing jamboree of eager hopefuls waiting to find The One!! BUT? Who are they meeting with? Maybe they are all keen joggers or athletic people, but beyond a common interest in activities, where is the heart connection? In a room full of eager suitors, who and how do they determine may be right for them? How do they then also ensure no risky dating, and avoid the predators who will surely lurk as well? Time will tell!!
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