Social Changes, Dating Resistence and How to Beat the Blues
The Truth Is Out – Dating Needs to Be Planned, Structured and Meaningful
The truth is finally being faced – the era of dating apps has changed forever as hopeful and genuine Singles are showing huge resistance to dating apps, swiping and endless fatigue in finding and connecting with the type of people they hope to attract – hours spent trying to choose the right contacts is exhausting and daunting.
Many awesome Singles are choosing aloneness to even trying anymore!!! Let’s change “never again” to “here we go again!”.
MatchVIP is voted the Best Matchmaking Agency in South Africa for a reason, with a solid track record and nearly 20 years of expertise behind our business model – success is possible, witnessed and confirmed by countless happy couples, who to this day, still keep us updated on their happiness with gratitude.
The sister-company of Perfect Partners, it also means all our clients have automatic access to TWO databases!!! Our different brands appeal to different types of people, and we cover the best of what the social scene has to offer for Singles starting out, Singles starting over, or Singles requiring other cultural/race connections, and all age groups at different stages of life’s journey – with dating budgets to accommodate all needs and pockets. We understand the needs of all and treat you as a worthy individual – not just a number!!
Does Your Dating Plan Have Structure and Objectives?
Our expert matchmaker, Shannon, and her dedicated team, who have been trucking with her for decades, really understand the heart and soul of beating the dating blues, combatting fear and choosing loneliness in surrender after dating exhaustion. We research human behaviour patterns in the changing field of dating, have experts with a deep understanding of the psychology of humans seeking life partners and dating strategies, from Step One to the final objective – success!!
Even the love languages between men and women have evolved – a new dating revolution has started with more meaningful searches, proper profiling and discreet person-to-person introductions – no internet and no risks!! Many hapless Singles have abandoned their search and given up on ever finding a lasting loving relationship, but this can be turned around with the expert guidance of our qualified Date Coaching, guidance and secrets to starting a new love life on the right footing.
Bring Back Romance by Finding Authentic Connections
The human species is not meant to be alone, and loneliness is in the heart of every Singleton no matter how sociable and popular, without the right partner by their side!
Many Singles are living in a bubble of work/family/friends, sleep, gym and eat!!! They subconsciously fill every day with “busy-ness” to avoid those lonely times when they have nobody to share life’s joys, the ups and downs, the thrills and spills, of just being imperfect and alive with a future ahead of them!! C’mon on everybody, don’t ever give up on finding love again!!! There is a partner meant for each of us waiting out there and just dying to meet YOU!!!
Loneliness can often lead to even more fear of meeting new love prospects, convincing themselves love is not meant for them – attachments to abandonment, fear of rejection and overthinking – quickly steal the fire within and turn us into boring, disinterested or even cynical Beings!!! But it is true, if you have no plan for a dating mission, how do you even begin, where do you begin, and when is the RIGHT time!!! The time is now, because your matchmaker makes sure you are date ready, socially skilled, up to speed with modern dating norms, use the right communication and skills – and goes at YOUR pace!!
Give New Love a Chance With Expert Guidance
We are not miracle workers or magicians, and we also need to plan with you in order to manage expectations, face the realities of who could be RIGHT for you, and who best will be compatible with your lifestyle and needs. Let’s shake our tails and see how we can assist – a few weeks date ready prep can change a lifetime!! Orientation is free and nothing to lose – talk to us today!!!
We welcome all enquiries from professionals Singles who are intentional, curious and courageous, and we are flexible on budgets and work according to your schedules and needs. Let’s have that conversation!!! Even if you feel you are not ready, you may be surprised to hear how eligible and awesome you are!! Procrastination is the thief of time!!
Your personal matchmaker is invaluable in helping understand the rules of the dating game, the best ways to encourage when it looks good, or exit when it is not.
Please submit your Personal Profile and we will call and book a chat to discuss how we can improve your dating experience, apart from also meeting prospects that are genuine and RIGHT FOR YOU!!