Dating Tips

This is not an ordinary dating site, but a personal contact with your own matchmaker – Talk to us today about your next match.

Take a few minutes to consider whether or not you are satisfied with the conventional methods you are using in order to meet, and keep, other quality single partners that may be proving less than effective. Read and evaluate the following questions, a sample of what we need to know. You will find that they help you to focus on some of the areas that most people rarely consider as important. If your answers are mostly ‘yes’, we need to speak!

Remember: Character is what we are born with and cannot change; Personality is what we develop as we grow and as we define ourselves; Reputation is what we build and value!!

  • Does the same personality type always attract you, and is this really what works for you?
  • Do you believe that personality is shaped by our childhood and imprints us for life when making choices, and can this change?
  • Have you ever wondered what your personality type is – do you know yourself? Do you know your triggers?
  • Are you tired of meeting people who you think are right, only to discover that they are not?
  • Do you just accept what you get: ‘the best for now’ relationships?
  • Do you feel that your life has burnt out…or that it never really started?
  • Would you like to meet new, quality people in a totally different and unique manner, with expert profile matching?
  • Are you too busy to socialize regularly but would love to meet new friends, discreetly, and through an intensive screening method? People who share the same outlook on life?
  • Have you ever fallen for someone only to discover that you are not the only one in their life?
  • Have your relationships been sabotaged by extended family, or children?
  • Did that someone special turn out to have bad agendas?
  • Are you afraid that you will appear ‘cheap’ if you are not properly introduced?
  • Are you afraid that your first words sound like a corny pick-up line?
  • You know you feel affectionate but can’t express yourself? Forgotten how to have fun?
  • Do you pour out your troubles at the first opportunity and cause the potential partner to run like hell?
  • Are you aware that you make love with your spirit, the body is only
    the tool?!

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We do hope to hear from you soon!

Dating is about so much more than merely being introduced to the right person. Why not contact us and get it right this time around? It will change your love life, that’s for sure.

What is personal branding and why is it so important in the “singles dating game”

Since the beginning of mankind’s history we have been image-conscious – from the primitive man in his beads and loincloths (and hey, he dug his beads too!) to Gucci and Armani, we like to look good – well most of us do!! In 2018 we have many choices and will acquire that which we feel enhances our image, from bling to clothes to any status symbols we adore, and what we can afford. 

Your matchmaker profiles you and makes sure you have a consistent and authentic profile (you have approved too) when introducing you – no wonder more and more singles prefer a professional introduction service like Perfect Partners or MatchVIP.

We are imprinted from childhood on neatness, grooming, hygiene and cleanliness and we develop our individual “styles” – our personal signature.  Some are very creative and quirky, some very conservative and “corporate”, some very casual and laid back, or eternally classic ….and some of us are just happy to have any old thing, comfortable and practical, and yes, some of us nothing at all – not even a loincloth! But is this working for you?

Most folk LIKE their look, their style and develop a persona around this – why?  Because they need a variety of different personas to fit in with general society, the society they choose to hang with or work with, the workplace, the cult, even the iconic level celebrities enjoy – a dedicated follower of fashion! And their adornments and clothes define them – yes, we know. Good or bad? You need a “dating persona” too if you are “seeking” the right kinda attention, of the lasting kind! No new relationship can be built on fraud – and yes, it is fraud when you are NOT who you say you are! A little change can make miracles happen!

As matchmakers we “sell people to people” and as rough and crass as this sounds, we are contracted to find everyone that significant person they can identify with, people “like me” or “people I wanna be”, and the very first impression is visual!  We applaud and encourage the theory you must like yourself and be “who you are” but when seeking a mate, is this working? We often hear “I am what I am and they must take me the way I am” – so no fine, you like yourself, your friends and family like you the way you are, but does a stranger need to automatically like you too unless attracted?

Your professional matchmaker is standing by to help you define where you fit in, where you wish to fit, and how to do this successfully! There is a perfect match for everyone when you have time, the right image and game plan!

  • Please believe that personal branding is very important in this age as our eyeballs are bombarded daily by the media – whether job hunting, settling into a new social scene (after a divorce or being widowed) wanting to be welcomed into a certain group YOU know you fit in with (be acceptable then) or most importantly, wanting a new lover, best friend and soul mate! We all want to be accepted (we learn the hard way in school when young, we often do not fit in automatically as humans are “clicky”) we learn some families hate each other but are forced to love each other, and we all want to be liked!  First step in dating blind, is the visual…. time to display your awesomeness as a person comes later, but get your date’s interest at “hello!”!

Most upmarket singles, executive and corporate singles, have their “business branding perfected” but nobody is looking for a business partner – singles are seeking a love match, and this needs to be “advertised” well, so maybe it is time to approach a professional matchmaker and expert profiler to also perfect your social branding, and get your dating plan perfected too!

Happy singles dating!

Dating tips – the secret to succeeding at finding love – where you may have failed, and why even fear holds us back!… An interesting read on where to start winning


Dating is a Skill says the matchmaker

Today we talk about “succeeding” and this means at love and relationships too!  Dating is a skill one needs to acquire! This is such a mysterious part of our lives and so important to our survival and existence as a species, but do people give up too soon when it gets difficult? Or do they allow past experiences to stunt their chances? The past is merely a learning curve, the future is yet to happen … is only the NOW that matters guys! 

It is not just a case of “man seeking women” or “women seeking a man” as no two people are the same!  No experience is the same, and every day is yesterday’s memory tomorrow, good or bad.  Spoilt for choices on dating sites? So many singles dating and seeking go online and thrilled at first to find so many choices, but soon suffer dating burn out from just so many dead-end dates, some even quite creepy or soul crushing!  “Who are these people I am meeting?” people ask….well, they are strangers and you need to have some profiling skills before you let them into your personal and sacred space….that is why our executive singles, singles in the corporate world, discerning and smart singles, rather outsource to a matchmaker who has all the resources to find and introduce the best possible matches.

We are your campaign managers, promoters, motivators and PRO’s and you are the main character in your own movie, on our stage, and we are presenting you to an audience, albeit it discreetly and one at a time, a personal introduction, also professional singles ready to connect and hoping to get the best results in the shortest time with least risks.

Singles dating is tough, many also give up because they fear rejection …or they lose hope…so we have added a rather inspiring piece on this today! It is just logic, we cannot all appeal to everyone, even if we like them!  Solution: try harder next time to attract, put your heart into it, and be realistic about what you can get….it is not always about what we want, but where we are best suited to fit in and get what is best for us in a sincere singles society…and all the rest on compatibility.

Love is perfect! And it is the imperfect but wonderful others who are also on this level playing field of human-ness to find love and approval that makes it perfect…with very loving souls and the same needs as you….at the very basics of the eternal human psyche. People who CARE, firstly about themselves, and one day, YOU!

Success is simple, start CARING about YOU! Value yourself…… deserve the best!

You joined an online dating site, visited a dating club, went clubbing, took up gym………….and all you get is exhaustion and confusion.  Back to “where, who, how?”.  Where do I find my perfect partner? Who is this person and will I know when we meet? How will I meet this ONE important person, and how many hundreds do I need to meet to find them?

Your answer is to find a professional and caring matchmaker, someone who gets you and your needs, who is also a dating coach and can help you straighten out the grey areas – the unknown really – so you have a defined game plan, and reality, and can start with baby steps! True love does not just arrive on your doorstep……

You need to understand you are in two minds, aren’t you?……….. part of you wants to succeed and part of you does NOT want to succeed. Part of you says YES and part of you says NO. Should I? Shouldn’t I?. You care enough to know something is missing, and you fear the getting out and finding it by making a conscious decision, even if it means getting a professional matchmaker on your side. Why should I pay for love?  DUH? No, you are paying for an outsource service to help you find love, and help you know it when it happens, avoid the pitfalls of instant gratification and endless searches…..your date coach and matchmaker is also your gatekeeper!

Sometimes people believe failure is predictable.  When what you have to do is easy, you won’t need to care as much, so it does not matter, easy come easy go. When finding your soul mate is difficult, you’ll need all the caring and courage in your soul to make it happen. And most worthwhile achievements require hard work and sacrifice. Or an investment in your own future through joining a professional matchmaker who provides personal introductions for corporate singles, young executives that need to plan well for a bright future, or upmarket singles who genuinely have much to offer. When you have a toothache you see the dentist, don’t you? A matchmaker is your “doctor” of the heart!

Maybe the time has come for you to care more? (as opposed to just “wanting” and “needing” and aimlessly hitting social media or random dating sites).

In the past we lived by all kinds of blueprints but none of these taught us how to find a lasting soul mate, just told we will “be married and breed” one day – learnt at school, church, from family – but once your life is no longer delivering you deep satisfaction, you may need to design your own blueprint for the future! Herd instinct takes over and we are all swept up in the tidal wave of busy, busy, busy and begin to lose what we once felt like when once we had dreams!  We fill the void with “activities” (some good, some bad) or even live vicariously through others, or simply dive under the duvet!  All those opportunities are still there if we stop self-sabotaging!  Make those dreams come true!