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Matchmaking is an essential, personalised service, geared specifically to meet the needs of single, busy and successful individuals who do not have the time to date and meet other likeminded singles. A well trained and skilled Matchmaker will bring with him / her, a multitude of benefits. We thought it would be an excellent idea to start our Dating Blog off with an illustration of some of these advantages:
- Time SaverHave you ever spent countless hours browsing the internet and thousands of online singles profiles only to feel exhausted at the end? Finding a date can be time consuming. But suppose you are successful and do find a Wednesday evening coffee date - there really isn't any guarantee that you would have much in common when you physically meet other singles. Based on a set of predefined criteria, a Matchmaker is uniquely positioned to select more appropriate individuals for you to meet and start dating.
- PrivacyMatchmakers take care to protect their clients' confidentiality and will not release any contact details without your permission. No-one will ever know that you are making use of a trained professional to assist you in finding that special person – unless you tell them yourself of course.
- SafetyAs part of the screening process a Matchmaker has conducted a background check and personally met every individual that they introduce you to. This is not negotiable.
- Personalised ServiceA Matchmaker takes the time to get to know you, your personality and values and understands exactly who will be a suitable and rewarding match for you. Think of it as a corporate dating service.
- Trust and UnderstandingIt is important that you trust your Matchmaker and feel comfortable so that you are able to communicate all your wishes. Once the Matchmaker gains an understanding of your past and how it affects your current dating patterns, he / she will be able to help you shift destructive or outmoded patterns. This is the essence of personalised matchmaking.
If you're single and have a comment or question, please feel free to post this. We would love to hear from you.
Have a read of our other articles:
- Managing expectations when dating
- More on chemistry
- Single over the holidays?
- What do men want?
- What do men want? (Part 2)
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written by tasha, July 15, 2009
written by tasha, July 15, 2009
i dont trust online dating and yes it does take up way too much time. i have spent hours getting to know people online only to find that when we physically meet there is no chemistry. i must have been on 20 dates alone this year. i am not 100% sure how a matchmaker would deal with this...
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written by Tanya, July 20, 2009
written by Tanya, July 20, 2009
Dear Match VIP,
having been through your process of selection, evaluation etc. I must admit I am very impressed. I also always have the concern that online dating is not safe and the dates are not always straight forward about age, looks, career etc. It is nice to know that I now have a competent matchmaker as the middle woman, who will protect my interests in a professional and discreet manner.
having been through your process of selection, evaluation etc. I must admit I am very impressed. I also always have the concern that online dating is not safe and the dates are not always straight forward about age, looks, career etc. It is nice to know that I now have a competent matchmaker as the middle woman, who will protect my interests in a professional and discreet manner.
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written by bonita, July 20, 2009
written by bonita, July 20, 2009
Hi Tasha
You make a very good point. Before we answer your question it may be a good idea to define chemistry first. So, what exactly is chemistry? Well, chemistry is a combination of many elements.
Comfort level: That feeling that you’ve known each other for years, even though you’ve just met. This involves the ease with which you are able to verbally communicate with one another and cannot be forced, but very often this feeling will develop over a period of time.
Compatibility: Sharing the same outlook in life and having the same values and relationship goals which makes it easy for you to get along. This is where your Matchmaker plays an important role as they would put the time and effort into getting to know you so that they could introduce you to the correct person. That’s why we call it personalised matchmaking!
Physical attraction: An initial visual assessment followed by a character and attitude assessment which would finally determine how attracted you are to another person. This is where the post date feedback with your Matchmaker is essential so that you may fine tune your unique criteria together.
No one can force chemistry to occur. It can however develop between two people over time. That is why MatchVIP suggests that you go on at least 4 dates as friends with someone compatible (don’t set any other expectations on your first meeting) before deciding to take the friendship further or before deciding to part ways.
You make a very good point. Before we answer your question it may be a good idea to define chemistry first. So, what exactly is chemistry? Well, chemistry is a combination of many elements.
Comfort level: That feeling that you’ve known each other for years, even though you’ve just met. This involves the ease with which you are able to verbally communicate with one another and cannot be forced, but very often this feeling will develop over a period of time.
Compatibility: Sharing the same outlook in life and having the same values and relationship goals which makes it easy for you to get along. This is where your Matchmaker plays an important role as they would put the time and effort into getting to know you so that they could introduce you to the correct person. That’s why we call it personalised matchmaking!
Physical attraction: An initial visual assessment followed by a character and attitude assessment which would finally determine how attracted you are to another person. This is where the post date feedback with your Matchmaker is essential so that you may fine tune your unique criteria together.
No one can force chemistry to occur. It can however develop between two people over time. That is why MatchVIP suggests that you go on at least 4 dates as friends with someone compatible (don’t set any other expectations on your first meeting) before deciding to take the friendship further or before deciding to part ways.
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written by Anton, July 27, 2009
written by Anton, July 27, 2009
Hi MatchVIP,
I am very pleased with the services rendered to me! As i have trided and looked for the best internet dating services available , you have definetly taking my attention . Matching the right people is quit difficult , but trough your efforts it seemed effortless! Thank you for making it that much easier !!
I am very pleased with the services rendered to me! As i have trided and looked for the best internet dating services available , you have definetly taking my attention . Matching the right people is quit difficult , but trough your efforts it seemed effortless! Thank you for making it that much easier !!
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written by Judine, September 20, 2009
written by Judine, September 20, 2009
Hi, I am looking at joining Match VIP, I have been on the internet, also surfed through so many replies from men looking for FUN, married men looking for affairs...no strings, men looking for a weekend girlfriend only to be on his arm, but during the week his life goes on as if she never existed, men looking for a one night stand, men who spend the whole night talking about all their broken marriages and how a woman must now pay her way as he can't afford another woman in his life, ......... also the wasted hours on false descriptions....he is 6 foot 5 on his profile, when you actually meet he is 5 foot 5, looks much older than his photos and has piled on the kilograms.......and tells you the most horrific stories about being accused of wife abuse. It's one thing to be honest on a 1st date........but do keep some mystery. Sorry but the internet has for me been a waste of my evenings and time.
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